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Kweh Chia Shin (16274) PE
How to end a relationship ???

To have a perfect soulmate is very happy to everyone, however, they say that all good things must to an end. Breaking up is never easy for anyone. It involves a lot of pain and suffering. Ending a relationship with the one you love could be very sorrowful. But, sometime we cannot avoid it. So what you can do to minimize pain for both of you? Therefore in order to cope up with separation , you should be extremely strong and there are 3 simple steps to end a relationship such as thinking thoroughly, give some time for your partner to face the truth, and also communicate your problems with your partner.

First of all, you must think thoroughly. For example, if you are not statisfied with your relationship and want to have a break-up, then you should be clear about the reason for doing so. While stating your reason front of your partner, you must not sound vague or nervous and try to finish the matter as soon as possible because “ short-term pain is better than long pain”.

Secondly, you have to communicate your problems with your partner and be honest to them. Do communicate with them, tell them why you want to break up and try to think a solution of your problem. if nothing works , at least you would not regret your decision afterwards because you have already tried.

In addition, you should give sufficient time for your partner to face the truth. Try to act strong emotionally and do not feel guilty once you have ended a relationship. If he or she need some time then give them that time but, never give them false hope of returning to them!!!

For me, I think those basic steps is the easiest and most efficient way to break up a relationship between couples as they can minimize the pain and injury to the couples. Thus, if you can find one, please appreciate them………..^^