THE BREAK UP

Have you once come to a struggle on how to tell your girlfriend or boyfriend in order to end a relationship? Once you've decide that breaking up is only solution, you will find that to end a relationship will be pretty difficult to carry out. Seriously, breaking up in a relationship should be well managed or else it will lead to tragedies such depression or even death. Therefore, we always need to find proper way in ending a relationship so it would reduce the effect toward the emotion of any party in a certain relationship. In my opinion , in order to end a relationship, being honest to your partner on everything , having a face to face conversation in ending a relationship and no procrastination on the break up , will be an ideal way to end a relationship.

Honesty is the only key to end a relationship. Telling your partner about the reason of the break up and be honest in everything before you end the relationship because your partner always have the right to know. For me, honesty is the last respect you can pay towards this relationship. If you still can’t be honest at the very last moment then the relationship will be totally meaningless.

Besides, a face to face conversation should be done in ending everything up instead of mailing to his or her. The reason of doing this is his or her won't feel like they are dumped by someone, at least they felt respected until the end. Other than that, it also symbolize that you have courage to start the relationship and of course ending it instead of being a coward running away from a relationship that you have started.

Another important fact is you should not procrastinate the process of ending the relationship once you have make up your mind in ending it. Since procrastination will increase the sadness or degree of pain towards your partner. Hence it is better to end it as soon as possible. My advice is to make things easy come easy go to minimize the problem that will be happening after the break up since the problem is regarding the relationship between two lovers.

Breaking up with someone is never easy. Therefore finding an appropriate way such as meeting up with your partner immediately after deciding to break up and express it in the most honest way in order to reduce the pain cause to your partner as well as you.

Ong See Ching