How to end a relationship

A Herculean Task

WOON TIAN LOK

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Relationship are complicated and even with all the good intentions , sometimes you have to end it for some reason .Therefore , the human that dump their partner are not villains and vamps. The longer you stay with your boyfriend or girlfriend, the more investment you’re giving to the relationship .The more difficult for us to break free. You've done everything you can. But you've finally realised that it's time to end your relationship. Understandably you're struggling to do it.

Give some time to your partner, if you have to ended a relationship, then be ready to face it, do not start guilty. When it's over, it's over, try to strong emotionally. And never ever give them false hope of returning back to your bosom. Try to avoid getting back together after a few days or weeks, just for old time's sake, you only stand to hurt your partner more. And I know that's not what you want to do!

You need to seriously consider whether or not you are really right for each other. Be honest to your partner. It essentials that you first communicate your problems with your partner and tell them why you break up. Try to take out a solution of your problem . Even after this if nothing work up , you will not regret of the decisions you make .

Prepare for them asking 'Why?'.. Before you approach your partner, explore in writing the main reasons for you wanting to leave. Work through each issue figuring out what it is about you that's contributed to the issue arising.. You should not call your friend to help you. Be dignified enough to say break up with your partner. You should communicate directly with your partner.

Sometimes you have to get to know someone really well to realize you’re really strangers. There is only one life and living it in tears is not a right solution. I hope you will know when it's time to deal with that pain and get on with your life as well as having the courage to follow through.