Ending a relationship is never easy when you have truly had enough and you are ready for freedom. But there are ways to make the break up go as smoothly as possible. Understandably, you are struggling to do it. Therefore, you need practical solutions on how to break up with someone that you have been together with for a long time. Wrong moves or actions can lead to unwanted things to happen where tragedies and depressions can occur. The simplest way to end a relationship is firstly, to make sure you are ready to do it, do it in person but mostly, try to be as honest as possible because he or she deserves to know the truth.
Before you proceed with the break up, think everything through deeply to avoid any regrets in the future. Try to remember every moments and memories that you have shared together and think it either is it still worthy or not to you. Are you really ready throwing it all the precious moments away? Once you have done thinking about it and you still want to continue with it, then you have to stick with your decisions and do not get influenced easily as you may get back together if you are not careful.
The next step is doing it in person. Breaking up with someone via text, email or even over the phone is really disrespectful and cowardice in a way. It will be much more civilized if you do it in person and besides, you can really explain yourself so that your partner can understands it. They deserve a nice closure at least. In addition, as we all are aware that sometimes the truth hurts but you have to learn to live with it.
Lastly, be honest with him or her. Tell them the reasons why you want to move on. Skip all the long, roundabout tales of why things would not work out and outline the facts to prevent any more confusion. But most importantly, do make certain that he or she is aware that there is nothing wrong with her or him or that their actions led to this end.
In conclusion, to end a relationship, you need to ready to do it, do it in person and be honest. Relationship is like you are in a maze. It is easy to get in but it is even harder to get out. You can either find your way out or you are trapped inside.
HAZIRAH BINTI MOHD ABDUL RAUSHIN
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