A relationship can be painful,enjoyable,mysterious, and a lot more to be discovered. Some say relationship can ruin your dream. But what people do not see that a good and healthy relationship can help us achieve what that can be said something impossible. And break ups often cause serious emotional effect towards a person life. Break ups are the one thing that I can assure you most couple would try their best to avoid. But sometime these kind of things cannot be avoided, sometimes only because of silly reasons. There are 3 best way to end the relationship. First, make things clear, followed by being honest and to accept what is good for us.
First of all, you must make your self clear to her about what you expect from your relation. Make sure you understand why you are doing it and you do it for some reason. Tell her the real reason why you are not satisfied with the current relationship. Dig deep within yourself to find the real reason. Do not make any harsh decision based on emotional quantum. Separate yourself from the situation and spend some alone time to think wisely. This will help you to know what you are really expecting from her.
One of the other way, you must be honest in a relationship. Honesty is the best policy. Tell her why you want to end this relationship. You must not play with her feelings. It is a very wrong thing to do. We may cause her to feel bad and in some cases, one might decide to commit suicide. Tell her or him nicely and not to hurt her feeling. Try to make it as if you are the reason the relationship ends instead of her. She will feel a lot better and it will not affect her self confidence. By doing this, both of you can still be friends without feeling awkward.
Last but not least, try to make a good bond with her. Explain to her that may be we are not destined together but who knows maybe one day we will meet another person who is better in all aspect. One who will suit her, adore her, love her just the way she is and most importantly, care about her for the rest of her life. Even though things might not turn out to be what we may plan wonderfully before, who knows what are God plans awaits us in the future.
All of us are destined to be with the one who are perfect for us. No matter how hard we try to find the girl of our dream, God have already chose the perfect partner for us. We might meet this girl in an unplanned situation or maybe she used to be the one we hate the most. So do not be too emotional when breaking up. This thing is usual. The more we learned from our past experience, the more we will be matured in our next relationship.
AHMAD ZAKIRIN SIDQI B ABDULLAH / EE / 16282
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