How To End A Relationship (Complete Essay)

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Simple Methods To End A Relationship Gracefully

Most of the people nowadays are facing the problem of relationship with their partner and trying to break up with them. Although breaking this relationship off is certain to be painful, especially for the person being dumped, it’s important to be respectful of the other person’s feelings, and try hard to do as little damage as possible. Unfortunately, most of the people in Malaysia cannot find a best solution to end their relationship with their partner. Actually it is not difficult to do it without hurting your partner by using some simple ways like choose your time wisely, tell your partner clearly what are you thinking and just do it without second thought!

First of all, you must choose a most suitable time to meet up your partner. Make sure that you choose a time and place that will allow for both you and the person that you are about to dump to allow for the time and privacy to do it properly. Don't break up with someone right before they have a big test or are about to go to work. Fridays are a kind choice as this will give your partner the weekend to recover somewhat.

You must be clear what are you doing. Don’t give them hope, it’s not fair on them and can make things more difficult for you too. If there is still something salvageable, they don’t break up. Don't make a long list of reasons as to why you are dumping him/her. Really analyze your reason for leaving, and boil it down to the essential problem: "We are not compatible enough in key areas," "I don't feel supported by you in my career path, and I don't want to change my path," or other similar, specific details. Don't argue about it or try to prove yourself, just stand by your decision.

Don't be wishy washy, thinking to let the other person down "easy." Hold strong, you have already made your decision. This does not need to be a dramatic, escalating event. Ending a relationship on the phone is acceptable and even recommended in some cases. If your partner is prone to outbursts, violence, or manipulative behaviors, this is much safer and prevents the dumpee from the embarrassment of having you watch his or her torment.

I think these are the best solutions although there are still several ways to end a relationship gracefully. Endings are difficult, the longer the relationship then the more effort and emotional upset it will take to end it. But, it never be too late to break up a relationship when you feel that you are not interesting to your partner again.