Breaking a relationship was very painful to everybody especially for a couple of lover. Once you’ve decided that parting ways is the best solution, doing the actual break up can be pretty nerve racking, since people’s hearts are on the line. As painful as a relationship can be as it’s ending, the experience can be a source of profound learning and personal growth. For me, ending a relationship is the best way to start new life with new identity, set ourselves free from any problems and most important is give us happiness in our life without facing the problems with our couples.
First and foremost, the way to end relationship is being clarity to us. In other words, make sure we understand why we are doing it. Sometimes the surface reason isn’t the real reason. Dig deep within ourselves to find the real reason. Being surrounded by the situation can cloud our judgment. Then, separate ourselves from the situation and spend some alone time. This will help you gain the clarity we need.
Besides that, we need to be self-honesty in ourselves in order to end the relationship. Many people are very hard to do this thing but we must show self-honesty to our partner. We should make the commitment to be honest with ourselves and the other person such as our partner or our couple. Explain the truth problem that ourselves facing with our couple with slow talk. In other word, we must find an appropriate explanation in order to convince him or her on the advantage of ending a relationship.
Next, do not to take anything personally because it will be happened when we are emotional and feeling hurt; we can easily become irrational and say things we don’t mean. So don’t be surprised if our partner acts like a small child and says unreasonable or mean things to us. They are simply hurt and need attention from us. Become the observer so we don’t get attached to what’s being said and react defensively.
End relationship needs clarity, self-honesty, and last but not least don’t take anything personally. Ending a relationship is the best way to start new life with new identity, set ourselves free from any problems and most important is give us happiness in our life without facing the problems with our couples. Having these requirements are very kindly to end a relationship with someone. It was not so cruel although it was so hurt to someone.
First and foremost, the way to end relationship is being clarity to us. In other words, make sure we understand why we are doing it. Sometimes the surface reason isn’t the real reason. Dig deep within ourselves to find the real reason. Being surrounded by the situation can cloud our judgment. Then, separate ourselves from the situation and spend some alone time. This will help you gain the clarity we need.
Besides that, we need to be self-honesty in ourselves in order to end the relationship. Many people are very hard to do this thing but we must show self-honesty to our partner. We should make the commitment to be honest with ourselves and the other person such as our partner or our couple. Explain the truth problem that ourselves facing with our couple with slow talk. In other word, we must find an appropriate explanation in order to convince him or her on the advantage of ending a relationship.
Next, do not to take anything personally because it will be happened when we are emotional and feeling hurt; we can easily become irrational and say things we don’t mean. So don’t be surprised if our partner acts like a small child and says unreasonable or mean things to us. They are simply hurt and need attention from us. Become the observer so we don’t get attached to what’s being said and react defensively.
End relationship needs clarity, self-honesty, and last but not least don’t take anything personally. Ending a relationship is the best way to start new life with new identity, set ourselves free from any problems and most important is give us happiness in our life without facing the problems with our couples. Having these requirements are very kindly to end a relationship with someone. It was not so cruel although it was so hurt to someone.
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