Everyone want to live happily with a relationship, especially for couples. But being dumped is one of the most devastating things could happen in life. Therefore, several measures are needed to be taken before one of you making it finale. Quarelling and blaming each other could only bring this complicated things into worse. It best to know that, there are still appropriate alternatives to end a relationship. To make it easier, we have to think deeply before making it final, ready to face the consequences and be well-prepared for the worst-case scenario, ending of the relationship.
First and foremost, we must have to think enough. It is necessary to find some acceptable reason on why you want to end this relationship. Ask yourself and ask your partner for his or her own opinion. Why should this relationship have to be ended? What caused it to happen? Is there is no more love between you and your partner anymore? If you still cannot answer these question, it might be your fault and it is better for you to get going, fix it before it too late. If you are still not sure about yourself, get some advice from the person whom you believe the most. Sometimes, what we thought is not always the best.
Second, if you have think about this thoroughly, then be ready to face the consequences. The will always be good and bad consequences. To minimize these, prepare yourself with severals guidelines. The times for the actual break up should be the first time your partner is made aware that you have issues with how things are going on. It is better than saying silent and suffering from inside through dreadful relationship. This could reduce the effect of the break-up. A good friend of mine once tell me. relationship are much just like driving a car. As long as small steering correction are made as one roll down the road. A large jerk of the wheel should never be required.
When it is the time to do it, relax. set a time and place to meet. Make sure it is suitable. And when he or she is in front of you, give him or her your full attention ( do not texting or checking email in the middle of of the discussion ). He or she deserve it. Make sure you say it clearly because break up is not the timeto be vague or mysterious. He or she surely will most likely want some specific reasons why you want to end relationship. So be ready to provide them. Last but not least, a real man will leave relationship settled in a way that the woman understands why things were ended. She may not agree, but she is not confused, and if there are things for to work on, she knows about them.
Ending a relationship will always be the most hardest part in life, so the person should come up with better ways to coop with it. Thinks deeply, accept the truth and make a preparation is the best ways to do it.
Muhammad Syahmi bin Baderus
16533 PE
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